Aug. 28, 2025

Shove Your Shoulds: The Real Cost of Indecision and How to Trust Yourself with Money with Jessica Frew

Shove Your Shoulds: The Real Cost of Indecision and How to Trust Yourself with Money with Jessica Frew

Why waiting to make the “right” financial decision could be the most expensive move of all—and how to trust yourself instead.

What if the biggest thing holding you back from making bold money moves... was your own inner voice saying you should be doing something else?

In this episode, I’m joined by Jessica Frew—mom, stepmom, ex-wife, wife, and the bold action-taking creator of The BOLD Logic and author of Shove Your Shoulds.

We’re unpacking the hidden price tag of indecision and the financial weight of those “shoulds” that keep so many women stuck in careers, relationships, and money patterns that no longer serve them.

Jessica shares her personal journey through divorce, remarriage, and entrepreneurship, and how she learned to break free from inherited money beliefs and make aligned financial choices that feel good and make sense.

If you're constantly second-guessing your financial decisions or over-researching every move, this episode is the permission slip you’ve been waiting for.

You’ll walk away with:

  • Why “shoulds” cost you money, energy, and confidence
  • How to spot decision debt and what it’s doing to your financial progress
  • The 3-step method Jessica teaches to make bold, aligned decisions
  • Why waiting for “clarity” might be costing you more than you think
  • How to create emotional safety around money decisions
  • What it actually means to make confident, values-aligned financial moves

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